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In this article you’ll learn how to put a penis in a vagina properly (as well as how to put fingers, or sex toys in vaginas and anuses too). But sex is a lot more than just fucking. You have know how to create the right vibe, how to be relaxed, but also how to get aroused. The key to all of this is consent and communication. People say it hurts for the first time, but there’s no reason it should. It’s just that no-one teaches people how to do it properly.
Don’t assume that sex is just penetration, or (aka fucking): it isn’t. A lot of people don’t have the kinds of bodies that can enjoy fucking and a lot of people find it painful and uncomfortable.
Try thinking about sex differently, there’s a lot more to sex than fucking. It’s about the kind of sex you both want to do, not what you should do. Lots of different things count as sex: rubbing your naked bodies together, or a fully clothed kiss straddling each other on the sofa both count. It’s about working out what you want and what will work for both of you. A lot of this depends on how much time and privacy you have. This article about working out what can help you with this.
The reason people are often mistaken when it comes to hate fucking is that the word “hate” is involved. A hate fuck is essentially another word for angry sex. You don’t have to actually hate the person at all!
Whoever you’re hate fucking absolutely has to be okay with it. They have to be okay with the act itself and the aggression that comes with it.
