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, co-authors of Designer Relationships, Partners in Passion, Great Sex Made Simple, Tantra for Erotic Empowerment and The Essence of Tantric Sexuality, recommend doggy style for first-timers and those who may have had an unpleasant experience before. The couple says, “Anal sex should never be painful. Always use plenty of lube and proceed slowly and gently.” Ransom adds, “Rub and stimulate your clitoris too to make it even more pleasurable.”
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These questions are becoming more common. According to research from the Kinsey Institute, more young women than ever—45%—are exploring . So to answer your first-time anal sex questions, we called in the experts. And while they all shared different tips for first timers, their advice had one common thread: The key to enjoying anal sex is preparation—and consent.














