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Let me preface all of this by saying that there’s no ‘one reason’ behind why some women moan so loud during sex. Research has put forth several viable reasons behind this sexy phenomenon.
“Moaning is super sexy and it shows that it’s a positive experience,” says Engle. “People want to feel like they’re doing a good job in bed. It’s highly erotic to hear confirmation.” (Shout out to all my peeps out there who could basically orgasm just from hearing someone else’s pleasure.)
If this is the case, Alexandra suggests or even consider some sensory play where you wear headphones or your partner uses a gag. Covering someone’s mouth can be v hot during sex, so if your moaning other half is game to give it a try, this might be one of those sexy solutions that work for everyone.
Truth be told, the person you’re sleeping with probably doesn’t mind your moaning either way. However, if you’re the type to moan in such a loud, uncontrolled way that it sounds like a dying walrus or a wailing banshee, refining that sound might do you some favors.
To keep your moaning subtle, take the help of a good seductive album or pick a sexy song. Play your favorite mood music playlist while getting frisky, and see how you feel when you reciprocate your partner’s moves with moans. You might just end up loving it!
